Why?

Recently I have been looking at SL with different eyes, I have seen SL bring joy and pain, in a way that sometimes amazes me!  I have seen the sadness of people leaving SL as a result of separation from a BF/GF or partner, I have also seen the depth people will go to control others and there SL. I have even seen owners of venue almost throw staff out of employment if they have even considered working anywhere else, I mean how odd is that, to think that working for anyone else is deemed not acceptable...  Crazy thats my opinion :)

My concern is for the people that find themself caught, caught in something they didn't see happening or coming.. The ones that get promised the world and then find it brokern and shattered, I think we can all think of someone thats been touched by this. Either they were the ones being hurt or dare I say it the ones causing it.. Some don't see what there doing as anything other than the right thing, or even consider that their actions might impact on others in a negative way.

I am sure that there will be somone pointing the finger of guilt at me, but in my time in SL I have had my fair amount of drama, but throughout all of that the one thing I have always been is honest and when the cards were down I told the truth even if it was possibly to my own detriment. But its the other gentle people that are hurt the worst, it is these people that my heart goes out to and hope they are strong enough to clear the table and start the puzzle again. 

I just wish people would consider their actions on those around before they enter into something, or take time to be sure that things are right.. The world is full of pain and we should not add to it in a virtual world that impacts peoples RL...

One day everyone meets there match or perfect mirror.. I hope we all together can make SL a better place.