Well it's all about time....

One thing that flags up to me is the issue of time difference's and how that affects or SL's.

Now why do I bring this up? well we all know about it and deal with it every day of our SL lives, but this as my partner lives in the USA and I am in the UK, and the difference in time is about six hours and that is behind me (- 6 to GMT)  or there abouts given the seasonal time changes.

Now I think its different depending on which partner is where, what I mean is that might be different if its the male or the female that lives in the minus time zone (- 6). SL has a whole range of issues, looking at the pole running on the front page of this blog the main reason that relastionships fall into trouble is down to trust, well that pole is still running so please add your own opinion.

Now it takes a lot for people on SL to trust others, its one of those things i guess when you love and care for someone you might find that your always worried about what there doing when your not around and with them. It takes a very strong bond to be able to stand the test of time and not allow yourselves to fall into the paranoid way SL trys to steer you. For those who know that there BF/GF, partner; Wife or Husband is online it can be a bit off a emotional ordeal and a bit of a head F*%K! Now this will always depend on that person,  and,  or their past experiences on SL. 

I have seen so many fights happen over a simple miss understanding that was allowed to reach a point where you can almost see the larver bubbling over the top of that volcano. And when it comes down to it, it's all over the trust between the two people, and its just as much to  do with how much you really care about each other but not having that physical contact to reasure each other of those feelings unlike that way we are in RL in the same situation.

The great thing is when it does happen it's the most solid and binding thing you will find, Romanceme and I in my opinion have this, although we haven't been together as a couple as such for a long time there is such a close and respected bond there that in no way can I see it being shaken, even when you consider or (-6) time difference and what isses that can bring.

All I can say to my partner and soon to be wife is "I luv ya baby and I am so looking forward to all the years we have together"...