Wow...

Sometimes it takes someone special to say or do something and Romanceme is always open and has recently said this to me.

You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean and the beat in my heart -- Thinking of you!

When two people join as one in a marraige it shows the true comitment and that the people care enough to openly show they want to be with one another... And this is my reponce to Romanceme :)

You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without and meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.



A night in!

Tonight was spent at home and enjoying the company of my wife.. And I have to be proud that she is totally awesome as this pic shows...

Sexy and mine and thats all I have to say! 

Catch time for me!!

Monday night was Muddy's and many might think that I was on a high, and I think even Naigo thought I had gone crazy.  To be honest I just wanted to have fun and what better place to do it than Muddy's. so sorry guys and girls it was just me being a bit of an extrovert for a while lol.

And the crowd at Muddy's were in fine spirit. I was happy to see that the tunes were going down well plaus many of the requests were brilliant, thank you to all those that made it a great night :)

SL is a place that throws up many great things, and since Romanceme and I have been married it seems that each day we are growing closer together. It has been clear for a long while that we have something very special, and now that we are married just re-enforces the fact that two people can live and survive in SL and have what can be considered a normal relationship.

Finally I can say that I have a sense of calm, a sense of I belong.... And that's due to my darling and sexy wife Romanceme

The Day of Joy!

The wedding day has arrived, with the rehearsal the day before which went with minimal of issues, I think looking back that it helped me get to grips with the process for the real event.

More importantly I want to thank my lovely wife for firstly agreeing to marry me, and for looking and being in my eyes the most amazing and loving woman in SL.  I also want to thank all our friends for making the time to be with us and for helping to make the day and even better one.

"So thank you all and for the congratulations and wonderful gifts"

"Also a huge thank you to Naigo, Goodnight, Rel and last but not least CJ, you were all a pillar of strengh and a source of laughter on the day, so thank you all"

"For me a personal thank you to Nimue for being  our photographer on the day and for capturing the moment for us"

The day had started with the normal worry and panic, SL had and remand pretty laggy and I was worried that it was going to give us some issues on the day, thankfully it was all fine. I must be honest as we were waiting and seeing people arrive I was starting to feel a little tense, Naigo had to forcibly remove a bottle of beer from my hand and block the fire exit. Honestly I just wanted some fresh air,  ;)

But once everyone was seated and the ceremony had started i chilled out and had a lovely time while I married the woman of my dreams.The minister Timothy was brilliant and and helped guide is through the ceremony, and with such great words and feeling..  Thank you Timothy :) And a big thank you to Monica for being there on hand to make the wedding so possible and in such great style as well

After the reception many of us headed over to Muddys and carried on the party under the awesome tunes that DJ Max was spinning.  Thank you Max for the dedications and great tunes :)

Very shorty I will be going through the pictures and posting them on here for you to see, and please free to pass the link to the blog to your friends if you would like them to see the pictures as well.



The big day is almost here!

Days like these are always ones that have you a little on the edge of your seat,  not just because your sitting there praying that you dont crash or that you don't get stuck with your arm stuck in the air like your trying to flag a taxi down, never a good look for the wedding pictures. :)

The invites went out a few days ago, lets hope everyone gets them and their diary is free to make it. We would love to see all our friends and have them share such a happy day, one that I know I will truely treasure forever :)

Well its all down to the day now, the venue is ready,  the tux is cleaned and pressed, and I did remember to take my flower button hole (Boutonniere) out of my pocket before I gave it that final swish over :) 

All that counts now is that the day is fun and that everyone has a great time, the path of happiness is about to become even better than before, and the fun and laughter will keep us warm in the days, weeks and years to come :)

Evenescence

Well last night I was back at Thunder Rock but not to work but to hear Evanescence! You have just got to love there music! You must check them out when they play next, totally awesome and will give you a true night to remember :)


The night rocked and the tunes were classic and the crowd were great :)

Wow!

Now this is a great artist and I am sure you should check out there new album

Click to see YouTube Video

TUNEEEEEE!!!!!!

Okay I was never a great fan of Manson but! ... This is a awsome video of a great artist and rocks me every time I hear it...

Click to see YouTube Video

A night of talking and laughing :)

Well the wedding day is getting close, and last night Rommie and I spent the night sending out wedding invites and running through things, the flowers have been bought and that's pretty much all we can do until the big day :)

So it was a case of settle down and chill out for the evening, so we sat and chilled out and just talked, it's so nice to be able to just mellow out and have a few laughs. Rommie has such a great laugh and is always able to get me laughing, no matter how the day has been. Rommie you brighten my day so much I love you babe :)

Wow stunned!!

A few days ago both Romanceme and I had to grab a picture for the invites for the wedding, and we have been waiting for it to come over from Nicko's.

Now we both wanted a pose that was different and both showed the true side of us and I think Romanceme finding this pose and Nicko's taking the picture has hit the mark totally!

Greywolf!

Recently I mananged to bump into a few old friends and Greywolf is one of them, I have know Greywolf when we both worked at Sweethearts Jazz as hosts and was a good and close friend. Like other things in SL you drift apart, but now our paths have crossed and this is something he gave me  and waht an aswome job he did and he did it double quick time :)



Way out there!!

Last night was one that was amazing, okay there was a little bit of confusion over working as well but for the better part it was a great night.

Last night my better half and I went to Galaxy, which is was as far as I can make out a haunt of a large population from Europeans, mainly Germans as far as I can make out. But the sim is pretty amazing with it's great music and dance areas, there is an awsome tour your can take so yo can see all the areas that are available.

After we had taken the tour we headed to a few of the spots on the sim and see where we waned to hang out and explore, we went the the several spot before we settled and spent the evening cuddling in space surrounded with stars and plants.. I was quiet Idilic to be honest and well worth a visit if you get a moment with a loved one :)

All I can say that I hope these OS upgrades get sorted out and finished as SL returns to its former self, with few restarts and FAR less lag :)

AND WE PRAY



Quick snap and a panic!

As the days role past with an alarming flash the count down to the wedding day is coming fast!!

Last night was spent with Nicko's for the picture that's going to be used for the wedding invite,  the trouble was we wanted something a little special. Sadly the pose wasn't in Nicko's inventory, this lead to a last minute scramble on marketplace to find what we wanted. After a frantic search we found what we wanted but not quiet, but it was close enough :)

So after a quick snap by Nicko's we were off home for some time to catch up and to sort out some other wedding stuff. With all the systems updates that are going on at the moment its almost impossible to do much, so time out is the best option for a while :)

Opening my big fat trap!!

I  know you all have read some or at least on of my posts in the past, or your just going to stay in denial ;)

One thing that has come to light that has been more apparent since Romanceme and I have been together is the shear amount of people out there that really want to send you messages. Not one of congratulations but ones that are designed to hurt and try and get us fighting, now I think that's quiet sad to be honest, I have no idea why this is happening but it must be because there is a certain jealously or vindictive streak in people.

Now I am not going to highlight this to much as the people that are doing this should perhaps focus on their own SL and not waste time attempting to interfere in other peoples SL :)

In the long run both Romance me and I are very happy and the wedding is getting nearer, and all the plans are going well.. I hope that our friends will be able to join us, invites will be going out soon :)

be sure to send us a RSVP as spaces are limited, if you are wanting to attend please let me know ASAP, the reception will be held at Blane's Club, Myst so please feel free to dropping for a while everyones welcome.



What a night, and a day that is dun!

Wow, what a night and one that found me and most of the people at Muddy's crashing a fair few times. We are all aware that Linden Labs are doing a major OS update to there main grid servers, well last night it was the worst I have seen in a very, very long time.  Well not since I was hosting at a club that had the rule of restarting the sim every five to six hours to keep the lag to a sensible level.

Anyway both Naigo and myself battled on with the evening and made teh best of the crashing and some of the newbies that still haven't got to grips with the PG rules that Muddy's have. For any person that has recently joined Muddys and has or is looking to go to Muddy's please check the rules out... That way you wont find yourself being ejected for breaking the rules :)

It ended up being a fustrating time and not just due to the lag, other things were conspiring to be thrust my way and just at a time when I was not in a position to be able to deal with it. Anyway the night moved on and I think we can all pray that the Linden Labs upgrades go smoothly and quickly.

Also a big thank you for DJ Moe and Hostess Snow, who stepped up and took over, I was running and over and covering as the normal DJ was struggling to get online and Naigo was having to get to RL... So think you both for the help... Done in true Muddys family style as always :)

A moment in time!

Each morning as dawn breaks the rays of warmth and light shine through the window, I lay there listening to the birds as they welcome the dawn of new day.  My eyes catching the first rays of the sun, watching as the sky turns from a deep purple to a warm soft glow of morning.

The sounds of life ringing through the air, I close my eyes and try to block out the impending day.  I turn and pull the covers over my head and think of nothing but the darkness, and of the peace and tranquillity that only the darkness and solitude has to offer. I know that reality will be tugging at the covers, just waiting to snap me back to a world I am not relishing or wanting to join.

As the inevitable starts to dawn on me, the pain starts to waft through every fibre of my body, my head starts to spin and my heart feels like it’s being crushed. My mind wanders and cries out with an alarming shrill, one that sends that panic alarm to your body.

As I  force my mind to slip back to the darkness reaching out for the pain to leave my body, laying there just grasping the comfort of the dark, wanting to be comforted by the total warmth it offers, whilst trying to blocking out all that has come to haunt me.

Like a person that has two lives, one pure and simple, the other dark and troubled, one fighting the other for the greater power. Or two superpowers crossing swords and pushing and pulling that takes place during an epic battle of good versus evil.  My mind being used as battle field and my sanity as a pawn during the turbulent raging that swells within.

As the cracks appear within, my mind torn from one to another the choice of picking right from wrong and life or death, never knowing where that coin will fall and if it will be heads or tails when it comes to rest. Time will tell and life will crumble as two worlds rip themselves apart, and taking me to the brink of disaster and my mind to a depth of despair only ever seen in the realms of fantasy.

Where did the time go!!

Well an update has been long overdue, but it’s always hard to find a lot to talk about that is really worth saying that won’t send people to sleep in the first few sentence’s ;)

Well let’s start with the back end of last week, well Thunder rock was a pretty dull affair and I had almost no one arrive to see hear my set, that is a pretty soul destroying feeling.  Playing to an empty club and seeing no reward from that hard work, it was a night of frustrations all-round.  Friday was a totally different night, Muddy’s was busy and bustling, the choice was to play some great tunes from the 60’s &70’s, I had my reservations as to if it was the right thing for a Friday night. How right we were to go with the theme, it was a rocking success, so a big thank you to Naigo for the suggestion and thank you for your amazing work.. You Rock as always J

The rest of the weekend has been busy and time spent with Romanceme, most of it working through wedding stuff and everything else. It’s like a never ending thing, as soon as you finish one task you find you have two more to deal with.  We did take some random pictures and I will try and find some that I feel are worth showing you all J

Wow.. Nickos!

Well following a night with Nickos at his studio, all I can say is this guy is good.. and you know what I like about him he has an awesome sense of homour as well, we never fail to have a laugh when we get together :)


Well Romanceme and I wanted to get some great pics taken and Nickos was the only choice, well we wanted a mix of pictures and Nickos was amazing with his choice of poses's. So please have a look and if you have a comment please feel free to post it :)

What can I say, not only is he very talented  and takes pride in his work but has a flair and imagination that makes these pictures very special